The teenage years are always the toughest....The crowd in this age is totally confused as to how to live their life....And to make matters worse this is also the age where a guy wants to do macho things and a girl wants to do the girly bits!!!.....Plus you have to think about ur career...acutally your parents need to think about your career and you just tag along!!!
Confusion!!!..So much confusion at this age there is!!!..Parents say "Study dear!!..this is the golden age where you will make or break your life!!" (Point to note-->they say this till you are 40!!!) Then there are your friends who do all kinds of fundo stuff which atttracts your attention!!..NOW, speaking of attraction....at this age there is something which can potentially make your life MUCH more complicated is--------->>>> A CRUSH(there can be many of course)
A couple of examples to explain my point!...See i had this friend who wanted to have a girlfriend sooo badly that he would die for it!!...He was the desparate kinds....We always used to pull his leg and call him despo and all!!
But u knw what...the jokes on us!!..I think everyone in their life goes to or rather HAS to go thru this phase...its like the law of the wild!!...Its a part of evolving as a humnahuman being!..I bet sometime or the other u must also have had were having a crush on someone!!
The best part of having a crush is that u feel you urare in love!!..Its like the trailer of a movie (movie being the acutally love effect)...There was this girl in high school whom i had fallen for!..Not that she ever took interest in me but still..the heart always wanders the wrong way!!...She was the pinnacle of arrogance and attitude but still my heart fell on her!!..4 years i never spoke to her just saw her...sawy her being asked out by my best friend!!! :))
Basically a crush is like a demo version of being in love....It comes with an expiry date!!...U feel u r in love with someone but bang!!..2 weeks without that person ur love licence expires!!!Alternatively, its a channel where u experience all the phases of being in love and that too in a quick time!! the phases being:
1. liking the person
2. wanting to be with the person
3. the realization of love
4. Wanting to approach the person
5. heartbreak at seeing the person being approached by ur best friend!! :)
6. Remorse and letting go!
Still people enjoy having a crush and for fashion they have crush on people they knw they will never have!!Celebrities being the prime suspects!..And they love it!!..I have seen people worship these celebs!!..One of my friend watched a movie of the his crush for like 25 times...the movie which was VOTED as one of the WORST movies in life!!!
Well this is teenage life!!..What better to do than to spend ur pop's money on a nonclassifiable movie!!:))
However, let me tell u one thing....personally its kind of nice to have a crush...i would say that have lots of them....becoz when ur actually in love and ur heart breaks/is broken, you knw how to deal with it!! :)
Grazie molto!
AJ
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